You are currently browsing the archives for September 2013.
Displaying 1 entry.

Almost Time for New York

  • Posted on September 7, 2013 at 9:18 PM

I have a week and three days until I go to New York to see G. for almost two weeks.  We’ve never had that much time together without Worldcon taking up a good chunk of the time.  Last year we were together for ten days, but six of them were at Worldcon with all the stuff we do there.  Yeah, we get to play, but we’re doing so much other stuff that we don’t have as much time.  This time I’ll be at his house instead of a hotel, which is also different.  Normally we’re both in a hotel, or like two years ago when I was in New York, I was in the hotel and that’s where we played.  This year because of the change in location, we’re branching out, literally.  I can’t believe I just made that joke, but it totally fits because he’s going to use switches on me for the first time!!  We’re both inexperienced when it comes to switches, having always been in hotels when we’ve played before, so  BL (waves at BL) sent G. an email about the care and feeding of switches, which I have named The Email of Doom. LOL  Maybe I don’t know enough to “be afraid, be very afraid”, but I am a little nervous about it.  I’ve watched a couple videos of woman getting the switch, and it looks intense.  He’s going to use them for punishment sessions, so I’m not sure how I’m going to handle it.  If it was for play I’d be fine because I love intense, but for punishment I’m more of a wimp.

Besides that we’ve got planned punishment sessions to deal with, and there will be changes in positions that we don’t usually do.  He hasn’t paddled me while I was bending over in a long time, so we’re going to try that, and he’s never spanked me with the belt in that position, so we’re going to try that too.  He’s insisting that we take a trip to Home Depot, because I can’t fit the mat in my suitcase and still have room for clothes and the other implements.  So it won’t do me any good anymore to threaten to send the mat on vacation, because he’ll have one in reserve!  So not fair.  But he’s back to his old self, so who am I to complain?  I’ve been hoping he’d find that part of himself again, and it seems that in the past few months he has.  It’s been rough the past few years, but it seems like things are finally getting back to normal.  It’s very good.

I know I’ll manage to get a good girl caning in at some point, which means I’ll spend a while flying.  I haven’t been in that state in years, and I miss it.  He keeps the cane with him, so I don’t get to see it much, and I couldn’t use it on myself anyway.  It’s short, but I wouldn’t be able to manage to cane myself as hard as he can cane me.  Which is hard.  Very amazingly, wonderfully hard.  I don’t react to canes the way other people do.  My butt clenches and my toes might curl, but I don’t make much noise.  I just lie on the bed and start flying.  I was told once at a party that I hum while I’m being caned, which I haven’t noticed, but who notices that stuff when you’re having so much fun?

I came up with far too many ideas, and he took far too many notes, so I’m screwed in so many ways that I’ve probably forgotten a few of them.  G. says I’ve got the memory of a steel sieve, so there’s a good chance that his notes are much more complete than the things I remember.  I do know I’m getting spanked for skipping school in high school, which was over 30 years ago, but hey, better late than never. : )  He’s also going to get a chance to try out the bamboo spoons I bought that he hasn’t seen yet.  They seem annoyingly indestructible if you ask me, and just me using them on myself hurts like hell, so him using them is going to be an experience!

We have tons of vanilla stuff planned too, of course, but the miniature golf outing might get me spanked. LOL  It seems very possible, considering how much I suck at it.  I’ll have to work so hard at keeping my frustration levels low, so we’re going to have to see how that goes, because I can see it ending badly for my butt.  Anybody have any ideas on how to go Zen during mini golf?  All suggestions welcome!

I think there’s a good chance that he bought a new implement that I don’t know about.  He mentioned that there was something he’s wanted to try out on me that he hasn’t had the chance to, but when I asked about a new implement he said “I can neither confirm or deny the existence of a new implement”.  He’s sneaky these days, so anything’s possible!

I’m getting exciting about going because I’m realizing how close it’s getting to the time to go.  It’s going to be so great!